(Closed) feeling like the worst fiancee…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
5958 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@clockwerk:  it’s ok!  Anytime you deal with family, especially a death in the family, take however long you think it’s going to take and double it, it’s a shock to the family unit under the best circumstances and everyone has to grieve together.  Don’t be too hard on yourself for being upset about rescheduling your pictures….you were looking forward to them and when it’s early in the planning process, everything big and small is so significant.

That being said, put your feelings aside and look at how hard this is for your Fiance, how hard he tried to get home and contemplate how awful it would be to come home to an upset Fiance after everything he’s already been through.

The pictures will come out fine, one way or the other, I promise.  Focus on him, take care of him, make some comfort food, light a fire and give that man something worth coming home to, you’ll be his hero for it.

Post # 4
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Hey I think you aren’t being brat and shouldn’t be about this shit happens and at this tough time you should just support him anyway you can. YOu can always reschedule the pictures, there nothing that can be rescheduled about her funeral and the important time with spent his family during the difficult time.

In our lives and certainly when you are married shit will happen and things won’t go according to plan. All you can do, is realize what more impotant and be supportive of him and hopefully he does the same.

If you haven’t said anything, I suggest you don’t and you let it go. You seem to be very self aware and from your post and title realize what more important, which is more then I can say about a lot of people.

Post # 6
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

it’s okay to be disappointed – anyone would be. you’re clearly not the worst fiance ever since you feel bad about your feelings! Your pictures will be beautiful no matter when or where you take them! Enjoy your night and stop feeling bad! You guys will get it figured out.

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