Feeling lost

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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656 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2018

Aww. I’m sorry bee 🙁 Why don’t you take a few days to regroup. Maybe go see some family, have a spa weekend and think about what it is that you want….feeling like you’re always making compromises must be frustrating if it’s not reciprocated.

Take the time to determine where your line in the sand is and have a frank discussion with your partner about how you’ve been feeling. 

The biggest mistake I’ve made in past relationships was letting things that made me unhappy go for too long. It’s supposed to be a partnership and compromise but not at the expense of your feelings and if you haven’t found that you’re on equal footing over the last little while you need to find out why. 

Good luck Bee. 

Post # 4
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122 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: City, State

Hi bee! I am so sorry to hear you’re going through this difficult time, it sounds like you really do need a mini break to collect yourselves again. I hope your upcoming getaway helps you both and you are able to work through this. Don’t be shy to PM me if you ever need to talk/vent.

Post # 5
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161 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

That’s pretty tough going. It does sound like you are both communicating well, though.

I agree with PP, try and use this break to regroup and have a heart-to-heart. It sounds like your Fiance isn’t sure what she wants, and she might need time to figure that out, but perhaps you need to initiate the conversation. It might just be that the wedding is getting closer and it’d becoming ‘real’ – I know a few people that have panicked at that stage.

Regarding intimacy, to some people it’s more important than others. It sounds like you need to discuss that too- perhaps her expectations don’t match up with yours. 

Keep us posted- we’re here to support you.

Chin up, and good luck bee. 

Post # 6
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656 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2018

littlebeephoebe :  

i know it must be tough. Focus on the two of you as a couple. Spend the time trying to reconnect and stay hopeful! 

Chin up bee. You’ve got this!

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