(Closed) Feeling nosey…how big is SO's package?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
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  • Post # 48
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’ve never actually measured him but I’d say he’s between 6 inches and 7 inches and has a good amount of girth (which I find more important anyway).

    He fits me perfectly! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 49
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    my DH is around 8″ and fairly thick… I’m tiny so certain angles can hurt. 

    Post # 50
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

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    @SpecialSundae:  We measured erect (top) from the beginning base to the tip. From the beginning actual skin of the penis. Measure with a sewing cloth ruler, as to not hurt FI/DH. It is also the most accurate way to measure both length and girth Embarassed

    Post # 51
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    never measured him down there, but we use XL condoms. he’s a “perfect fit” to me, sometimes feels too wide at first but after a moment everything’s just fine :3

    Post # 52
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    TBH Ive never measured but voted sometimes too big but usually just fine.

    Although I do remember an akward moment when we were doing it for the first time when i said that i wasnt sure i could do it!!! Apparently it really upset and hurt him ๐Ÿ™

    Post # 53
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    My SO’s is 7.75ish” sometimes smaller and sometimes bigger and he’s pretty thick. I measured him when we first started dating and then again about a year ago. I will have to measure how thick because I’ve never done that before!

      I think it’s perfect!

    Post # 54
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    well ive never measured my fi’s as i think he’d find it kind of odd hahaha….but i think its a great size =P

    a lot of men tend to think bigger is better, and longer (sex wise) is better and its not always true. so big it hurts – sucks. and quite often all night isnt necessarily a good thing hahaha

    the only time theyre too small is if you have to say “is it in yet” hahahaha (hello guy i lost my virginity to :P)

    Post # 55
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    He’s… well-endowed, for sure. Definitely above average, though I have yet to take a ruler to it. Most of the time, it’s nice, but sometimes it can hurt. Quickies are pretty out of the question. I have to be prepared!

    Post # 56
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @newname_99:  Haha! I had one who managed the double-whammy of “is it in yet?” and “Jeepers! You’re done already?” (30 seconds… max).

    Post # 57
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    When I first touched my FI’s dong, I jumped out of bed and screamed, “WE’RE NEVER HAVING SEX, IT’S OVER!”  And he had to convince me it wouldn’t be too bad.  True story.  And, he said when we first kissed, the first thing he thought was, “Man, her mouth is small…” and yea – definitely no deep throating for him, poor guy. To clarify, he’s 6’6 and I’m 5’1 3/4″. 

    Three years later, it still hurts every time.  It takes a lot of foreplay and a lot of slow pushing at first before it gets comformatable.  I do O every time, though.  But, I’ve always been easy to please and have not Oed only a handful of times ever, no matter the size.  Some positions are definitely out of the question w/ Fiance and once I finish (which is always, always super fast – like I said, easy to please), it starts to hurt again and he needs to finish fast or else I start to get very sore. 

    Despite all that, he’s amazing in bed – best I ever had – especially with the foreplay and all that.  And even though he’s too big and my mouth is too small, I still finish him with oral in under 10 mins. 

    I do wish he was a little smaller or maybe less thicker or something.  Not sure what it is that makes it hurt every time. I didn’t see any other bees in similar situations, so I guess I must be alone in this one.  ๐Ÿ™ 

    Post # 58
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

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    @bunnyharriet:  Isn’t 5-6″ the national average for white guys?  Maybe a lot of bees are dating black guys?  lol

    Post # 59
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @futuremrsk18:  I’m ever so slightly jealous of your ability to O. ๐Ÿ™ I’m a nightmare to please.

    Post # 60
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @futuremrsk18:  Are black men statistically that much bigger?

    Post # 61
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

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    @SpecialSundae:  It’s not always great.  I finish in like 3-4 minutes and I usually only O once.  Then, it starts to hurt. 

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