(Closed) Feeling nosey…how big is SO's package?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How big is he "down there"?

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  • Post # 62
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

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    @SpecialSundae:  THERE’S A CHART

    I love that I’m researching this right now!! LOL

    Post # 63
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

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    @SpecialSundae:  again, sounds like the guy i lost my virginity to!! i swear, i was expecting a combo of pain and fireworks (damn those romance novels which made me think penis + vagina = automatically incredible). and then i realised that he seemed to be writhing around and having a great time and i could feel less then when he fingered me previously. bless him, it must suck to have a really tiny penis as a man. but it did explain why he always went for a lot younger women (call me cynical, but younger = less experience = doesnt know whats average)

    but to get off the tangent – ive watched porn and thought ‘thank god fi isnt that big”. im a bit bemused as to how many bees have actually got out the ruler…although maybe it makes sense, the bigger men are proud of it?!

    Post # 64
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @newname_99:  I thought about getting out the measuring tape but thought it might be shallow!

    I was lucky, my first time was “Mr Average” in size and had good stamina so it was actually really good. πŸ™‚

    Post # 65
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @futuremrsk18: That’s hilarious as well as informative.

    Post # 66
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    Bumble bee

    My guy is 8. He’s Italian, what can I say! πŸ˜‰

    I remember the first time I saw it- I was shocked. The 10(ish) guys I’d been with before were all around 5-6

    He’s 5 when soft, which is very interesting. And he can’t wear tight boxers because he can’t fit in them lol

    Post # 67
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

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    @HelleCat:  Agreed! Mine is exactly the same. 8 inches and it’s always perfect.  Only time it hurts is when we try some angles and he starts hitting my cervix too much.  Overall, can’t complain at all πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

    Post # 68
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

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    @bunnyharriet:  Yea mine is 8 and it’s perfect.  Any bigger and I would have a problem. Especially since I have a hard time getting him in my mouth now πŸ˜› lol πŸ˜‰

    Post # 69
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2015

    My SO measured his in high school and says it like 8 1/4 (I believe him lol) and he’s thick too. He always thought he was average sized but I cleared that up REAL fast lol. He’s the biggest I’ve ever been with but the only positions that actually hurt are missionary with my legs on his shoulders or similar (regular missionary is fine) or standing up doggy with my legs closed. 

    Sometimes he says that he wishes he could last longer. He’s usually an average of 15-30 minutes which is PERFECT for me, any longer and I get super sore and/or not able to have sex again until the next day. I keep telling him that I prefer it to go pretty fast but its like he has this timeframe of how long sex is “supposed” to last. Luckily, I can usually persuade him to go faster so we can have sex more than once within a couple hours.

    Side note: I went to a sex store recently and they had dildos that were molds of actual porn stars’ penises. They were GINORMOUS! Like longer and thicker than my whole arm! I can’t imagine that being comfortable.

    Post # 70
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Well. I selected “just right” because he is, which is so great!!!  The only time it has ever been an issue length-wise, is when I’m at a certain point in my cycle and I swear my cervix is WAY closer then it usually is (and it is.. well not technically, not like it actually moves around or anything)

    But, those are the only times, but we just adjust the angle and it doesn’t matter.

    And when we were frist together, doggy was a big fat no. But that was probably just a unfamilliar territory thing. (it’s not a problem now, and I’m sure he hasn’t shrunk and I havent expanded)

    But.. I’ve honestly never measured him, and he has never measured himself. But, he is definitely bigger then my ex, who was a 6.5 (from the bottom, rock hard, with a tailors tape) and he is definitely thicker, but I don’t recall measuring my ex’s girth. 

    Post # 71
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    Well I will happily admit to having a smaller guy. I’m a bit, uhhh, abnormally tight so he’s perfect for me. Although even his four inches* can hurt if there’s not enough foreplay and doggy hurts too much to do. If I were with one of these 8+ inch guys I don’t there would be any hope of me ever enjoying sex.

    *Complete guesstimation. He’s self-conscious about his size (although needlessly so) so I would NEVER suggest measuring him and putting him on the spot like that.

    Post # 72
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

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    @kerpao:  Ouch lol 

    When I read this post, the number of responses said 69. OMG LOL 

    Post # 73
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    Wannabee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    After we got SERIOUSLY comfortable with each other after we started dating, I asked him if I could measure it. it was just a bit over 7″. I was shocked because I thought it was bigger than that by how it felt, but its perfect fit for me, and hits all the right places Wink

    Post # 74
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    My husband is about 7.5 inches and I think it’s perfect.  I’ve had bigger and it hurt.  

    Post # 75
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

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    @SpecialSundae:  Some men are in the 95th % , the poll is only indicating 4% fall within the 9″ rank now that more votes have come in, which would indicate a more accurate depiction of the statistical average. A lot of men are mearly 6″ – for some women this may be just right, but for many women 9+ is also just right.

    Post # 76
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

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    @futuremrsk18:  

    Chart made me laugh.. just sayin. Haha!

     

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