Post # 1
Iam 27 4’11 and 95 pound Asian…Have 2 year old baby…
I really feel very uncomfortable..Bec i have the feeling that people are looking at me and laughing…I even changed the way i have to dress(Like petite fit and proper combinationa )Still i feel very uncomfotable to go out…..
Post # 3
@seema1234: Why do you feel like people are laughing? What about your clothes are uncomfortable? Has something recently happened to make you feel this way?
Post # 4
@Payless: NO incident has happened with me…But i dont know i feel like when ever i go out like in mall or anywhere i feel people are looking at me and laughing ,,,I feel like may be they are talking about me yeah look she is a mother ,oh god she so young in that way…
Post # 5
@seema1234: If people are mocking you and laughing at you, let them. You’re perfectly fine the way you are. Don’t let it get to you.
Post # 6
I know and this way iam loosing my self confidents…Thanks for your reply…
Post # 7
I understand why you’re self conscious. I don’t think you have all that much to worry about when it comes to this, though.
From my experience, people don’t think badly of small women who have babies. They may look at them, but not in a mean way and not for long. They don’t usually think bad things about the woman either.
Even if they did, however, that is not something that you should trouble yourself with. You are a 27 year old woman, not a child. If they can’t see that, that’s their problem. They should realize how old you really are if they have to interact with you in some way.
If you have to adjust your clothing a bit so that it’s easier to see that you’re 27, go ahead and do it; sometimes it’s necessary to do things like that. If you have to make it clear to someone how old you really are, go ahead and do that. You may be small, but you’re still a woman and mother. If someone treats you poorly because of your small size, they are in the wrong, not you.