(Closed) Feeling really low about wedding

posted 7 years ago in Recaps
Post # 17
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529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Hermoine:  I felt down adter my weddng too.  I get the same ‘let down’ feeling after any big event passes . I think we put so much pressure on one day , so much time sbd thought into thE littlest details thst not having the wedding to focus on puts us in a funk.  i didn’t have regret for the same reasons, kn fact I felt bad thst I didn’t cry at all thst day , just teared up while dancing w my mom during a song dedication.  I thought people were thinking I was cold hearted or something.  It took me a while to get over it but I still feel crsppy about things if I let myself think about it.  

Post # 18
Member
221 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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@Hermoine:  Awww! I wouldn’t feel bad about being emotional! The morning of my wedding was so hectic. I feel like some people made that morning of my wedding a bad experience for me. I was feeling so pissed off that the feeling carried over to the point when my dad and I were standing at the top of the aisle waiting to do our walk. During that time, he said he loved me and because I was so pissed off the emotional bit didn’t register. I sort of just ignored him. I felt so robbed of that moment and I also felt this for my dad! Aren’t you glad you felt emotions instead of feeling pissed off 🙂

About your H not wanting to partake in post wedding analysis, that’s ok, that’s what the Wedding Bee is for! I’m enjoying talking to other brides and seeing other weddings. See the whole wedding experience doesn’t have to end abruptly for you. But as KatePoppy said the wedding is just the beginning of the story. I have to wean myself off the bee! after I bury a few hatchets with a bridesmaid of course lol 😉

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