Post # 1
Hi Bees 🙂 So, my husband and I agreed we’d start TTC in May. I was SOO excited. It’s May, I’m charting my little heart out…We’re not having a lot of BD’ing but that’s not too unusual for us. So come my ‘window’ I’m rearing to go. Darling Husband is. not. into. it. At all. His plan was to start trying May 23rd…one week after my window. An arguement is the result, and needless to say trying didn’t happen. I was so sad, it was crazy.
Since then, we’ve talked, worked things out, and this month we’ve been trying to be more intimate. This weekend was my window and to be honest I stopped charting so I won’t know if we got it perfect, but I think we did a pretty good job 🙂 We might be successful this month…we probably won’t! But right now I feel SO happy that we’re both on the same page, and we’re both loving being together.
That’s all for now! Good luck to everyone out there trying!
Post # 4
That’s great you’re on the same page & that your Darling Husband came around…… seems like he just wasn’t aware that you can’t just try any time. lol
Hope you hit your O! GL
Post # 5
Good luck!!! And good for you to just stop charting. I’m pretty obsessed 🙂
Post # 6
@ FreckledFox I only stopped charting because I was SO depressed and discouraged! Now that we’ve BD’d a ton during my predicted fertile window, I’m just wondering when I actually O’d!! Wishing I had been charting now…Darling Husband says it doesn’t bother him or stress him out that I chart! I’ll start at the beginning of my next cycle if AF shows up 🙂
Post # 7
@ runsyellowlites His argument was that we could concieve anytime during the month…even on my period. My husband isn’t dumb, and I think he was just making excuses because he’s scared. We both really want this, but it just took him a little longer to get there.