(Closed) Feeling resentful

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 16
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184 posts
Blushing bee

I don’t think you have to worry about having a child, sounds like you are already raising one.  

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 7 months ago by  Soon2bBarker.
Post # 17
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3092 posts
Sugar bee

I have two kids and TRUST me,

the issues you complain about now will not be compatible with having children. If you are miserable now, I guarantee it a kid will shed a magnifying glass on the problems. You think you are resentful now? Sheesh.

I would not want to have a kid by a man whose priorities are video games and his car. And, if he doesn’t help out now, what do you think will happen when you have a kid?

I vote to put the kid on hold until this is all sorted out.

Post # 19
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8919 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Emjayemjay:  Why would you want want to add children to this mess? I’d subtract a husband, tbh. I guarantee that he will not change if/when you have kids. The only thing that will change is you’ll be taking care of 2 immature irresponsible dependants instead of the one currently on your plate. I would absolutely not sign up for that. No way, no how.

Post # 23
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2255 posts
Buzzing bee

Being a parent means you have to become selfless. What about your husband’s behavior indicates he is capable of putting someone else’s needs above his own?

Post # 24
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622 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

If you were to have children with him, you’d be raising them yourself.  You know this!

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