(Closed) Feeling ridiculous

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Hey Girly.

Hope you’re alright, personally I reckon you should talk to SO (I love that you called him MrWigeon) because I think he’ll be interested to know what goiing on in your mind especially something so important to you, maybe he’ll be able to put your mind at rest. I can see why snow proposal would make you envious, it does me just reading it. sounds romantic! πŸ™‚

From what your SO is saying it seems positive signs that he’ll be proposing this year at some point. 

Post # 4
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240 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I know what it’s like to wait and wait and be apprehensive about bringing it up but also want to bash him over the head with a clue-by-four. I mostly vented my frustration to my girlfriends and made secret wedding boards on Pinterest. He did propose eventually and of course it was worth the wait, despite all the external pressure.  (I’m 30 and live in a country that thinks women are past their best-by date after 25!) 

Post # 6
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370 posts
Helper bee

 

 

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@faeriehazel:  LOL, clue-by-four I love it!!

@LittleWigeon:  I say be open with him about it, if he expressed that he wanted you to talk about it. I am in the same boat. SO told me something very similar, but I feel soooo weird talking to him about it, because I don’t want to look like a spazz, but it’s nice to have the option.

@faeriehazel:  I totally have a secret wedding board on Pintrest.

Post # 7
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164 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Ahh, I love you, fellow waiting bees! πŸ™‚

@LittleWigeon – totally sympathize with the pangs that shoot right to your heart when you see other people getting engaged.  I have great hopes that you’ll have an amazing proposal at some point this year.  

@faeriehazel – The clue-by-four is what I’m wishing desparately was appropriate to deploy…that term is my new favorite!  And I have a secret Pinterest wedding/engagement board, too! πŸ™‚

Post # 8
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624 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@LittleWigeon:  Hugs to you! Waiting is just the pits sometimes right? Men are so cryptic sometimes, must be in their DNA! I would talk to him about how you are feeling. If he expressed that he wants you to tall about it, I would just bring it up with him. He sounds a lot like my guy with the planning, at least you know he will plan something special! It sure sounds like something will be happening this year! And umm yeah totally jealous of a snowy proposal… Yours will be a million times better though!

 

I have no clue what a clue-by-four is… But I could also bash my guy on thr head sometimes myself!

Post # 10
Member
965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Had a lovely snow day today and talked to OH about engagements and he said once he’s out of university as it’s the only thing stopping him and asked for my ring size again. πŸ™‚

glad that you’re feeling better about it, I told you you’ll be feeling better talking to him. it seems positive stuff and I’m happy that you’ve got more of an idea/putting your mind at rest. it seems like your OH has got caught up in the idea of it being ‘perfect’ and got side tracked/worried over this. 

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