(Closed) feeling rushed and disappointed

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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4431 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@00rubyred:  This is your life we’re talking about.  You shouldn’t feel selfish at all.  Don’t marry him soon just for military paperwork and because a couple told you too!  Everyone deserves the wedding experience that they see fit to have in their hearts!

For some, it could be a simple ok lets do this wedding…and for others, which seems like yourself…you want the whole thing…and have time to do it!

I say sit down with your Fiance and tell him how you feel…this will be one of many obsticales in your life and I think you need to be able to express this to him without hurting his feelings.

 

Post # 4
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1527 posts
Bumble bee

I think you guys should wait to get married until you’ve told people you’re engaged and have the ring and everything, but you can still do all of the engaged stuff and plan your wedding, even if you’re already married. We got married legally a month after getting married, but our wedding is just having a family dinner and pictures, so I planned it in 2 months. We’ll have been married 3 weeks at our wedding. (We decided to do the legal stuff before he started his job for paperwork’s sake).

Post # 5
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1718 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@00rubyred:  I don’t think it is selfish that you feel this way.   The Darling Husband is very practical so we had the same dilemna when we got engaged.  Darling Husband wanted to have a civil ceremony just in case he got deployed but I didn’t want to have a “covalidation” ceremony in a Catholic church later; I wanted one wedding with one anniversary.  In the end we had our wedding and the Darling Husband loved every bit of it.

I hope your Fiance sees your side of things.  Good luck!

Post # 7
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4431 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@00rubyred:  Good for you!!!! 🙂

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