(Closed) feeling sad about bridesmaid (long post!)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

baby brain. Let it go, she’s got more important things (for her) on her mind.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee

Or maybe she has to work to save her sick time for maternity leave?  Talking theoretically about what you’re able to do when early in the pregnancy, and what you’re actually able to do as time wears on, may be very different things.  Try not to feel too sad, I’m sure health/financial considerations allowing, she’d be there.

 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

She is pregnant, please cut her some slack.  Growing a baby takes a shit tonne of effort and comes with a lot of uncomfortable side effects. Don’t expect her to come to your bacholorette party.  She is pregnant.  Either organsie something she feels comffortable at or let it go.  She will be there for the wedding I am sure 🙂

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

Also … if you two had discussed she might have to miss your wedding and you were sad but understood about that, if I were the bridesmaid I’d assume (I know we shouldn’t make assumptions) that if you were understanding about missing the wedding, you’d be similarly understanding about missing a lesser event – the shower.

 

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