(Closed) Feeling sad about miscarriage today :(

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I promise it will get better.  My miscarriage was fourteen years ago and I’ve had three beautiful, healthy babies since then.  I had some fears with the first pregnancy, but everything was fine.  I can remember how sad the days surrounding that time was, but it’s just a part of my life’s experiences now.  Don’t lose trust in your body and your ability to do this! 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@Bee27:  Yes, the first pregnancy after… I worried until I got past the point where I lost the other.  It definitely gets better, hon! 

Post # 7
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7693 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@Bee27:  I’m sorry to hear the news.  Perhaps you can plan some fun things for this weekend.

Post # 9
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269 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

You poor thing – I’m so sorry! πŸ™

My mom miscarried on her honeymoon with the baby she was carrying on their wedding day πŸ™ but she got pregnant with me almost straight away when it was safe to try again and I was born 13mths after their wedding.

Miscarriage is the body’s way of saying there was something not right with the baby (this is how it was explained to my mom at the time) but it does not at all mean there is anything wrong or that you won’t get pregnant again. The fact you got pregnant in the first place is a good indication that everything’s ok, and I’m certain you will have a healthy baby (or babies like my mom :)).

But nevertheless it must be a terrible feeling so I’m sending you lots of positive energy and love during your grieving, but know that it will get better. *hugs*

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I just PMed you about the rollercoaster ride that is this process.  I’m so sorry you’re feeling down today. I think it’s so nice that you guys will be doing something for the baby this weekend. Sending good thoughts your way.

Post # 12
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1038 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Bee27:  I am so sorry for your loss.  I hope you can find strength and support from your husband and family during this time. 

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Oh sweetie! I know exactly what you are going through! I had my miscarriage in early 2011. It was the hardest thing I have ever went through still to this day. That week I didn’t even hardly move off the couch. I didn’t eat, I was sick 24/7… It was hard.

Even for months after, I would be fine for weeks then one day randomly start crying. It takes alot of time to heal. & Even after time you may start to think about it. I even thought about it this morning. Next month we would have had a 1 year old boy or girl. But I didn’t cry. I think finally I am fully healed. With time I promise it does get better. I remember asking myself over & over if I would ever be okay again, looking back now I wish I had someone to tell me YES I have been there & now I am fine.

I am fine & one day you will be too. πŸ™‚ BIG HUGS!

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I won’t stop worrying the next time I get pregnant.  I’ve lost 2 now and it just plain sucks.  No other word to describe it.  πŸ™  *hugs*  You definitely aren’t alone in this and please – give yourself permission to grieve.  Don’t let anyone tell you that you need to get over it or when you should stop.  Take things on YOUR time and realize that the sadness/hurt/anger will come in waves.  

Post # 15
Bee
1466 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Father's Vineyard Church/ A Touch of Class Banquet Center

I have had four miscarriages over 8 years, the last one being last month, and I can tell you that I’m still not over them. They still hurt to this day. To grieve and to hurt is completely human. I still haven’t had a successful pregnancy, but I know that one day I’m going to be a mother, one way or another and I have to hold onto that dream to make the pain a little less hurtful. It’s okay to let the pain in, just know that with every low comes a high, and hopefully that will make it just a bit easier to get through. Lots of thoughts for you!

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