Feeling sad after postponing wedding

posted 3 months ago in Engagement
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2021 - City, State

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oxfordpink :  I’m so sorry you’ve had to delay for financial reasons, I totally honestly get how you feel, we had to delay as my fiancé’s mum got breast cancer, we both decided that she was more important than a wedding.

it will still be an amazing day when it comes, it’s going to be totally worth it when you get there. You got this ❤️❤️

Post # 3
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316 posts
Helper bee

I’m so sorry that you’ve had to delay. You are doing what’s best for you and your fiancé though and honestly, 2021 is going to come around quicker than we think. I’m also getting married in 2021 and I’m feeling so pumped right now! 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2020

It sounds like you’re being very wise about money so give yourself credit for that. I’m sure that doesn’t help with the disappointment though. It makes perfect sense why you would be sad. Treat yourself to something special today.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2018 - UK

This must be so disappointing, I feel for you. You’re doing the sensible thing though, getting your finances sorted is the smart thing to do.

My best friend had to push her wedding back a year after a booking mixup with her venue. At the time she was really frustrated, but honestly that year went so quickly, it was unbelievable. 

Your day will be here soon, bee x

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

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oxfordpink :  

Of course you are mourning.  You’re mourning the loss of the special day you thought you were going to have, now delayed.  You have an absolute right to feel that way.  It will pass, Bee.  But, for now, please just allow yourself to feel your feelings.

You have just experienced a huge disappointment.  Your feelings are totally understandable. Lean on the man who loves you. He doesn’t get it, help him get it. Talk to each other, Bee.

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