- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
Hi all! Last year I had legally gotten married at the town hall with the plans of having a destination wedding. Our destination wedding was supposed to be three months later, but superstorm sandy happened and we lost everything. Our wedding was supposed to be 3 days after sandy hit And obviously that did not happen — Planes werent even flying. All our guests lost their money and I felt terrible though I was not in control of the situation. However, fast forward and I know things could be worse, but I can’t help feeling sorry for myself. Things can be replaced, but memories cannot and I wasnt given a chance to make those memories. I feel sad when I see others wedding pictures because I will never have any. I will never have a first dance or anything. I missed out on my one special day. I been told it doesn’t matter I was technically already legally married, but we only did that to simplify the legal process. To be honest, no one has any interest in attending a “wedding” now as it is almost a year later. Do you think it would be a good idea for my husband and I to dreas in our gown and tux and take pics? Even if i take pics its still not capturing our special day. Nothing makes sense, and I can’t go back and redo things, but I just feel so…sad.