(Closed) feeling so down about wedding

posted 7 years ago in Money
Post # 3
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1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Dont worry im sure everything will work itself out with the finances. Just try to make cuts where you can, and remember that you are marrying the love of your life- thats the most important part of the wedding and you dont need all of the other things. As for the RSVP’s, people who know for sure they cant make it usually RSVP early on, so im sure the yes’s are comming soon. People are just slow about responding to these things. I hope your day gets better 🙂

Post # 5
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3520 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I know this probably isn’t what you want to hear right now, but you might want to see if you can find someone on Craigslist to do the video.  Offer $100 or so and make sure they give you at least 2 copies that can later be edited.  You’d be surprised at what you can edit out.

As for the flowers, see if you can do any of it on your own and cut the cost down to divert some of the money.  Dollar Tree has some good silk flowers that might work for the church or centerpieces… you might end up with something you like better!

Post # 7
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9056 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Aw, I’m sorry to hear you’re having such a hard time.  You just have to keep perspective that as long as the officiant gets paid for, the wedding WILL go on.

Post # 8
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1036 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@mzlouis2b: Completely agree, the no’s will come first.  The people who know they are coming tend to think, “Well that is a no brainer” and wait til the last minute or totallly forget to RSVP altogether until you call them.  Don’t stress, and keep focusing on what the day means…you get to marry the love of your life.  That alone is worth it all!

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