(Closed) feeling so guilty….. but I just want to be married

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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543 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

A backyard wedding is sounding more an more charming to me too.  How cute and edgy would a little courthouse ceremony be too.  I feel like everyone who I talk to who has been married always regrets not doing something more casual.  No one ever says they wished they had done a bigger, more elaborate wedding than planned.  This could all be a blessing in disguise and you could end up having the wedding of your dreams and saving a ton of money.  Plus it sounds like all the important ppl will be there.  With al the health issues, it seems like a quiet event with both of your parents could be really special and just what the doctor ordered.  So sorry you had to deal with all that.  At least this is a good test for you and your fiance.  If you can finally make it down the alter, you can make it through a lot worse down the road.  Chin up Buttercup.  It will happen soon and when it does, your day will be worth all the wait. 

Post # 4
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9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@MrsCtobee:  Perhaps do something small for now and then have your dream wedding on your anniverysary or so.  FI and I had to cancel our big wedding due to personal reasons.  I’ve suffered some depression over it, but have come to terms with what we decided to do.  There’s still plenty of opportunities in the near future to do what we wish.

Good luck.

Post # 5
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672 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree that a backyard wedding would be a good idea, plus you will have everyone that is important there with you. And this way you might be able to marry before August. Good luck sweetie and I will keep your dads in my prayers. 

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