- 3 years ago
Hi Bees –
I haven’t posted here on over 6 months…wow time flies when you’re enjoying life and not letting yourself stress over waiting 😉
I wanted to give everyone an update on what’s going on in my life. The last couple of times I posted, I was in a very negative headspace and quite close to ending my relationship, as some of you know. I was letting waiting get the best of me and also getting sad every time one of my friends got engaged. I was driving myself and my SO insane!
Over the past several months, I have regrouped. I started a new job back in March that I LOVEEEE and started focusing on all the wonderful things I have going for me. As some of you know, my SO had bought and been renovating a home. He has since moved into the home and it has been wonderful! He wanted me to move in, but I was not comfortable moving in until we are engaged since he owns the house and my name is not on it.
All of the conversations about moving in or not moving in really made him see how serious I am about things. I don’t think he ever realized I wouldn’t move in without an official commitment. Once he realized that, HE proposed a timeline to ME which was a total gamechanger. Since that happened, I’ve felt content and at ease with where we are. We have so many great things going for us and I know when he proposes in the next couple of months, it is going to be AMAZING and will have been worth the wait!
I am so appreciative to all of you on here for being a sounding board when I needed one – and for also giving me tough love even if I didn’t like it very much. It’s so great to have a group of women who want what’s best for you!
I’ll be sure to keep you posted. :