(Closed) Feeling somewhat frustrated with my MOH….

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
5269 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2016

I know how you feel, I am about to kick mine to the curb and not have a Wedding Party. Mine can travel from Denver to Yuma for a babyshower,or someone from HS’s wedding but just complaining about traveling to mine…. Then the whole dress thing. She wants to wear this black dress to mine when it has been worn to several diff.weddings/events. I feel like its not special and I dont know if I want her in black now bc I just found my dress used and it is black/white. I know if I say something else, she will just huff and puff like I am a bother. The fact that she doesn’t even want to order a dress til Oct bugs me. Who is to say you will get it on time? Ughhh! I already paid for hair for her so I cannot back out( deposit) or can I? Just say we both chose not to have one after all? I mean she wont even come here for my b party bc its too far she says but she can travel for a babyshower of an old co-worker or some guys’s wedding. They were not THAT close in HS….

I feel ya. She asked me if I need anything and I asked her to help me find this one thing and now she is too busy. Ya, going to brewerys and out to watch UFC. I dont get it??

Post # 4
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8882 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I don’t think you’re overreacting at all. You are not asking much of her at all, so there’s no reason why she can’t suck it up and be more supportive. I suggest having a talk with her and telling her how you feel.

Post # 5
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5269 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2016

@Lyndzo:  Agree but what if you have had several talks and nothing? It sucks

Post # 6
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1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I understand your frustration, and hoping that when you gave so much for her wedding you would receive similar efforts in return.  However, it is not tit for tat.  Just because you were able to make it to all of her bridal showers does not obligate her to go to any of yours.  Perhaps these economic troubles are more than she is letting on.  If she is truly worried about buying a new dress for your wedding – does it need to be new?  Does she already have a dress that meets your wishes, or maybe someone has a dress she can borrow.

Post # 9
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5269 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2016

@missbumblebee:  LOL oh wow! At least you vented. My Maid/Matron of Honor is still not budging after I told her that my dress is b/w and I want her to stand out and wear a dark silver(mercury). I said it’ll look great with a winter wedding! She said we will see….. what?!

Post # 10
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11272 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

i don’t think you’re over reacting.  it’s hard when all of your efforts aren’t reciprocated.

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