(Closed) Feeling sorry for myself!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

You have to realize that other people have their own lives to live. It’s nothing personal against you. Thats why websites like this are a good place to fulfil the need to talk about your wedding 24/7 without driving people crazy  :p

Post # 4
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1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m sorry you feel this way.  Not everyone is really into weddings.  Is your family/ Fiance helping you in any way?  I personally believe that if you’re marrying the other person, then they should help with planning.

Post # 6
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853 posts
Busy bee

This is why there’s the wedding bee!! πŸ™‚ Don’t worry, I have felt like that during my planning process too. I think wedding planning is kind of a weird thing that you can’t fully appreciate until you are the bride to be. You’re juggling so many different aspects—planning detais, and and making so many decisions on so many different things, abiding by etiquette, maneuvering family situtations and situations with friends…it’s overwhelming. And of course, you start to think that becuase this is a one time thing, people should be really into it! And some are, and that’s terrific. And some aren’t, which has made me realize at least, how important it is to support and help out my friends that have yet to get engaged. You’ll have feelings of ups and downs thoughout the whole process. I sure did! I went from super chill, to thinking I was bridezilla, to being, to ridiculously giddy, feeling guilty about money, worrying….it’s a whole host of emotions! But in the end, realize what your day is all about. You and your fiance. And at times when you feel like people don’t care, post on here! Everyone is in the same mindframe, and you can bring yourself back to the fun and happy place! πŸ˜€

Post # 7
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1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I can see where you’re coming from.  I glanced through some of your past posts.  Are you still doing the paper poms?  Those look lovely!

Post # 8
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582 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I totally understand! Nobody cares about our weddings as much as US! So it is just something we have to deal with. I go through days like this too where I just want to talk wedding wedding wedding, but my Maid/Matron of Honor has a 2 month old and my other 2 bm’s live in CA and work full time so its always hard to chat about wedding stuff with them. Don’t think people don’t CARE though because they definitely DO and they just have their own stuff going on, maybe more than you think. That is why I love this board though, you get unbiased opinions and a place to vent…although I know it isn’t the same as chatting with your best friends/family about wedding stuff hopefully it helps a little! If you’re happy then everyone else will be happy so be HAPPY and enjoy the most exciting time in your life! πŸ™‚ 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You can always come here on the wedding bee! πŸ™‚

This is where I get my “wedding fix”!

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Katnisseverdeen:  I was sort of in the same boat as you, but when I found WB it made things a lot better!! My sister was always willing to help but none of her friends had been married so she didn’t really know what to do!  And I was one of the first of my friends to get married and nobody else was even in a serious relationship so they didn’t care to talk about wedding stuff.  But we’re all here to listen and give advice!! Hope you feel a little better!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

right there with you, girl.  Just posted something similar a few days ago.  And honestly, all the gals here are right—at least we have weddingbee!!!!!  We all care πŸ™‚  Hang in there, they’ll come around (at least that’s what I’m telling myself)….and if not, just post on here and we’ll tell you how fab your wedding ideas are!

Post # 13
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335 posts
Helper bee

What about your fiance?

Post # 14
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170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I had the same issues… until I discovered wedding bee. lol. It sucks that no one can be as excited or as intrested as you but it’s just the truth… I know it hurts sometimes but I just get on here and get it out of my system… or go to my parents house because they may be the only people who are as excited if not more excited than me, lol. 

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You have us.  But I know that is not what you mean, I went through the same thing.  Luckyly my sister decided to do a religious ceremony and now we have each other to plan, but my best friends all abandoned me when it came to this.

 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

That is why sites like this exist but I know how you feel..sometimes it’s nice to have people irl you can talk to.  Thankfully y mom and sister, who I talk to daily, are super interested in my wedding planning and want to know every detail so I have them to talk to but they live oot so I don’t get to see them.  

I don’t talk much about my wedding to people irl.  If they ask me stuff, i tell them.  But that is it.  People are excited but they also have other things going on too.

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