- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
I just got engaged May 26th while on a 10 day trip to Florida it was a great surprise. While in Florida I asked him if he had thought of a date or month yet he said no and he wants the wedding planning to be not stressful. We just got back home on June 4th and he announced to me that he wanted to do it in December of this year (only 6 months away!) We are doing a destination wedding mixed with a cruise then a big reception for our friends and family when we get back. After doing much research about the cruise wedding we have found it is ALOT more complicated then we thought. His heart is set on the cruise wedding though (at this point I don’t care where we get married as long as I can wear a wedding dress). I have said to him well lets get married on a beach in Florida then go on the cruise he doesn’t want to do that. So now the whole finding a date in December is going to take alot of research and planning. He has said he needs to take a full day to look at everything. To find plane tickets, rental car info, hotel info (we will probably have to fly to FL the day before the cruise and fly out the day after the cruise is over. I’m feeling super stressed now though because we don’t have a date yet so I can’t find a reception hall until he picks a date. There is so much I cannot even look into until he figures out a date. I really want him to get on it but I feel like if I push him to much I’m going to stress him out. Planning a wedding and reception in 6 months is going to be crazy and if he doesn’t pick a date soon it’s going to be even more hectic! Ahhhhhhhhhhh how do I deal with all of this.