Post # 1
It’s a month (minus a day) until the wedding and I was wondering how brides are feeling around this time. Most of the planning is done, just a few last details to finish up for me. However we also will be moving stuff to our new apartment about the week before the wedding. Both wedding and moving is making me feel rather frazzled! Any suggestions on coping?
Post # 2
deep breathing! I know it’s overwhelming! I was super frazzled a month before for the same reasons plus finals for grad school. My best advice is take things a day at a time. Make a list for any last minute stuff you have to remember for the wedding, make a list for stuff to pack and cross stuff off, and remember to breathe!
Best of luck on the move and the wedding!
Post # 3
Im feeling all kinds of things! Nervous, scared, happy, excited, annoyed, everything!! I
m at a point where I just want to put on my dress, get pampered and get married already!!! But I
m trying to take it one day at a time and I take deep breaths when theres snags here and there. I try not to look at wedding stuff everyday because I think that
s whats causing me anxiety.
Post # 4
Thank you, both of you! It’s hard with so much going on but my Fiance and I try to take the weekends to relax and not worry about wedding stress, and it’s helped!
Post # 5
What date is your wedding? I agree with you though; getting pampered sounds nice! I just had my bridal shower and it was such a nice break from all the planning.
Post # 6
My wedding date is August 30th. 46 days!! That
s good that you had your bridal shower already! Must have been nice to relax and enjoy a day that
s geared for you! Mine is coming up on the 19th and I
m quite excited about it. It
s one of the only
m looking forward to right now LOL. I
m a little tired of looking at wedding stuff hahaha
Post # 7
I am also one month out from wedding and I’m completely confused as to how to feel. Some days I don’t think about the wedding and other days I think there’s “still so much that needs to be done”. What has helped me has been keeping busy. I basically have something social planned with friends every night of every week. I do have the luxury of being a teacher so i’m off work right now but I think work is also a good distraction. Just keep busy!
Post # 8
I would suggest a weekly massage!
If you are doing the moving by yourselves, can you ask a young male relative or two, to help with the move. That can be their wedding present (especially if they can’t afford anything!) I/m sure they would be happy to give you their time at least.
Post # 9
You still have a bit to go, although I’m sure it feels a lot closer! The bridal shower was so much fun and really relaxing. Only one person bought off the registry though, which was surprising. Thankfully I didn’t get too many doubles and got some nice things I wouldn’t have thought to ask for! I hope you can enjoy the day as much as you can; being pampered is nice 🙂
My maid of honor and I have been doing stuff together whenever we have time, which helps. But evenings are usually still working on wedding planning. Lucky you, no work!
I wish I had the money for a weekly massage! I’ll beg them off my Fiance and might splurge on a real one before the wedding. That’s a good idea about asking for help; I’ll enlist my cousins. My fiance’s bachelor party is the weekend he was supposed to help me move