(Closed) Feelings on Pre Recorded Vows

posted 10 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
221 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I think anything that will make the day easier on you two is a great idea. I love the idea of having music playing with it- that will be so nice and no one will think twice about it being prerecorded, I am sure they’ll be distracted by the lovely sentiments!

Post # 4
4 posts

I think that would be a very good idea. Remember that your wedding is supposed to be personal and this is a very personal thing. Its up to him if he feels comfortable with it but I think he would be very happy that you thought about his worries and are trying to make things easier for him.

Post # 5
754 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

You could do the formal I do’s and then do one of those video to show at the reception or rehearsal dinner with photos of you as kids and you could record a special message to you and you to him.  It would still be public but not as awkward as a recording might be during the ceremony.

Post # 6
174 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I agree — you two should do absolutely whatever you’re most comfortable with. It would be a shame for him (or you, or anyone!) to be so worried about the ceremony that he couldn’t relax and enjoy the day.

Good luck! 🙂

Post # 7
2640 posts
Sugar bee

I agree.   I think it’s on of those things that you should do the way you want to.  I bet many people there will understand the situation too.  If you’re worried about catching people off guard because it’s unconventional, just put it in the program.  That’s the best you can do to give them warning. 

Post # 8
1379 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

I think that’d be a great idea — I would think it would be best to not "embarass" him if you recorded yours as well, so as not to single him out of the situation. It could be done in a movie montage type of thing — I don’t know your budget (and it certainly isnt in mine) but you could even get someone to video tape the two of you saying your vows to each other.

Good luck, that sounds fun! 

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