(Closed) feels like it’s just never going to happen for me

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Words posted on boards do not also give the full story – I have read that you have flat out asked him about your future together, and his answers seem vague, not 100% fully optimistic, and now you say that whenever your future is brought up, he is acting distant.

I would not go as far as to say he doesn’t want to marry you, he says he does and says he “wouldn’t even be thinking about it if he wasnt with you” so there is still hope.

I would however, take a step back from the marriage topic. It is clear that he is not ready for this yet. Come back in a few months time, then ask him again – see if the situation and his stance on marriage has improved.

If not, and marriage is more important to you than this relationship, I would then start evaluating whether you wish to wait longer on him, or bite the bullet and try and find somebody who can’t wait to marry you.

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