(Closed) Feels like it’s ‘soon’, feels like I’m undeserving…

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

haha believe me, I felt the same way. I bugged him…and bugged him some more. I did have a couple of breakdowns about it since we’d been together for about 8 years. When it happened though, it was perfect. There was no embarassment at all. The moment was simple and perfect. Don’t worry about it! Everything will fall into place. If you know it’s coming soon though… I would definitely try to not bring it up too much …starting…now πŸ˜‰

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Perhaps you don’t need to make any grand gesture but just really try and be there for him and show him how much he means to you.

Cook him his favourite dinner or buy his favourite magazine randomly or to the laundry for him or fill his car with petrol. Just little things to show how much you care. Perhaps that will help alleviate how you are feeling at the moment.

Can’t wait for you to come back and tell us that he did it though. πŸ˜€

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I totally understand what you mean! I felt the same way and, when he proposed, I was really worried that I had pressured him into it (even though I had laid off for the past couple of months). I’m not sure I would do anything to show him I was sorry – I think you just need to sit back, cool your horses, and really think about why he wants to marry you. If he didn’t want to marry you, he wouldn’t propose, no matter how much you pushed him! Just chill for a while and enjoy the time leading up to the proposal πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I totally understand what you mean! I felt the same way and, when he proposed, I was really worried that I had pressured him into it (even though I had laid off for the past couple of months). I’m not sure I would do anything to show him I was sorry – I think you just need to sit back, cool your horses, and really think about why he wants to marry you. If he didn’t want to marry you, he wouldn’t propose, no matter how much you pushed him! Just chill for a while and enjoy the time leading up to the proposal πŸ™‚

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

Awww….I’m sure you’re fine or he wouldn’t still be thinking about marrying you! I think the best thing you could do is take a long engagement and just give him the first couple months to just be together–no crazy planning, no guest lists, nothing but just enjoying each other.

Post # 8
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376 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Sorry about the double posts – WB went crazy for a bit!

Post # 9
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1850 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think that maybe instead of doing some big grand gesture do some small things that will make him see what a wonderful woman he’s marrying πŸ™‚ Breakfast in bed, picking him up a fav magazine or a computer game just because, getting him his favorite candy if you’re at the gas station…just small things that remind him that you love him just as much as he loves you and that he’s always on your mind!

Post # 10
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Blushing bee

I LOVE those moments when you fall in love all over again!!!  Yayyy you!  I would simply tell him what you told us, not about the proposal, but that you think he’s amazing, and you keep falling in love with him…  too sweet πŸ™‚  I’m sure your ring is coming soon, until then… YAY YOU lol

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