(Closed) Fell in a hole maybe?… Abducted by aliens?!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Wait it out or quit while we're ahead?
    Wait it out maybe she's washing her hair... : (30 votes)
    88 %
    Kick her to the curb she wasn't your first choice anyways... : (4 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    can you knock on her door? or does she not live in the same city as you?

    Post # 4
    3451 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I’d give her a bit more time.  She may just be busy.

    Post # 5
    2447 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Is she okay? Maybe sick or working or something? That would be my first concern.

    Post # 6
    1257 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I would just reach out again. Take the wedding out of it. If you contacted her about something else, not the wedding, would you be this upset about her not responding you yet within this timeframe? If the answer is no then reach out again/give her more time. If the answered yes then do what you feel is appropriate.

    Post # 9
    7673 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    If that happened to my best friend, the e-party would be the last thing on my mind. I’d be more concerned about her welfare.

    Post # 12
    1257 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @MissMSND:  You don’t have to hold onto a friendship just because you have known each other since junior high.


    @paula1248:  That is also a valid point.

    Post # 13
    2783 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    No offense, but if you always get vibes you aren’t that important to her, why did you ask her to be your Maid/Matron of Honor in the first place?

    Knowing someone the longest is not reason enough to ask them to be your Maid/Matron of Honor, IMO.

    Post # 14
    570 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Sounds like she’s just ignoring you. Did you tell her she was Maid/Matron of Honor or did you ask her if she was willing?? How did she react to being invited as part of the wedding party? This sounds like a friendship she’s trying to let die a slow death…

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