- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2017
I’ve been a waiting bee for a few months now and I’ll tell you what, living in Utah makes it so much more difficult. We’ve been together for a little over two years and have lived together for basically all of it.
I’ve noticed the first question people ask (mostly me) and my BF is “When are you getting married?” or “Why aren’t you married yet?” or my all time favorite…. “You’re basically married already, why doesn’t he just do it already?”
It also doesn’t help that I’ve now known multiple couples in the valley who have started dating, gotten engaged, and gotten married all in the time we’ve still been dating. There have even been a few who have announced they are pregnant! My favorite is when they start giving me advice on my relationship and telling me why he hasn’t proposed yet. *Insert fake smile here*
Are there any other bees out there living in UT who are “out of the norm” and have been with their SO/ Fiance/ husband longer than a year before getting engaged and/or married? I’ve been feeling a little out of place in these parts lately and could use some encouragement or words of wisdom during the ever excrutiating yet surprisingly exciting waiting game!
Where are my Utah bees?!?! (And if you happen to be the typical Utah bride of quick engagement & marriage I’d love to hear from you too! All Utes accepted)