Felt great on my wedding day, but now looking at photos I feel ugly and insecure

posted 2 years ago in Beehive
Post # 2
226 posts
Helper bee

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loveydove :  oh my gosh. By the sound of your post I was like oh dear…

Then I saw the pics….you are THE ONLY ONE who will notice that. Seriously the only one. You look beautiful!

Post # 3
4403 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

I read what you wrote, scrolled down to look at the photos, and actually said “WHAT?!?” out loud because in no way am I seeing what you’re seeing. You look amazing. 

Post # 4
949 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

I agree with the PPs! You look stunning!!! Honest you are the only one who’ll notice those things. I think you look stunning! Also I love you hair 🙂

Post # 5
301 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

Wait what are you seeing? You are how I’m hoping I look in my dress because at my final fitting I saw a shot of my back and realized I had a little more work to do. You looked gorgeous! I love your dress, and I really love your hair!! 

Post # 6
1641 posts
Bumble bee

I see two people in love. Not sure what your seeing but it’s not apparent to me!

Eta: I was so excited on my wedding day I was smiling kind of intensely and nervous so I have a horrible double chin in a few of my photos from me turtlenecking myself. If that helps lol…

Post # 7
3235 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

I don’t see what you are seeing. I see two people in love and happy.

Post # 8
3359 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

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loveydove :  don’t look at guest photos. They’re always kinda the worst. Wait for your pro pics – if sure you look lovely (and fwiw you even look lovely in those guest pics)

Post # 9
2326 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Sorry don’t see it

Post # 10
126 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2020

I can see it in one of the pics..but at the pp said those are guest photos so I’m sure ur professional ones are better. That’s what they do!

But u we’re relaxed and happy and besides the one u look soooo beautiful. 

Even if a CPL are showing u relaxed u could probably photo fix that… 

All of that aside u look so good and ur married to the one u love 


PS I don’t want any back lash for being honest !! 

Post # 11
1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

Definitely don’t see what you’re seeing. AND these aren’t even professional shots! Girl you look wonderful and that dress is di-VINE! smile

Post # 12
1207 posts
Bumble bee

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catskillsinjune :  agreed, I think it’s just bad lighting and bad angles. For a moment I thought they were professional photos and was like what… then saw that it’s guest photos which makes sense.

Either way I wouldn’t have noticed “the hunch” if you hadn’t pointed it out. I think you just look happy and natural. Wait for the pro photos I’m sure they’ll look much better, and well, professional lol..

Post # 15
6309 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

You look gorgeous!

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