(Closed) FEMALES, pick one of these guys to date?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 76
4243 posts
Honey bee

5″8 is pretty average for a dude. Also, describing yourself as “really good looking” reminds me of only one thing:

Post # 77
2777 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

ClaudiaKishi:  omg Zoolander! Yeeessss!


To the OP… Dude…a super tall guy has nothing on you if you’ve got a kind and good personality, treat women nicely and know how to give really good oral sex (read She Comes First).

Height in men is like cup size in women. The majority of people are just happy to be playing with your breasts regardless of cup size. 

Sorry Bees I couldn’t resist.

Post # 78
1387 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Never really thought about height. I’ve dated guys who were 5’6″ and 6’6″. It just depends on the guy. Darling Husband is 5’8″ and he’s the best out of the bunch. I had a friend who is 5’11” and said she’d never date anyone shorter than her. Her husband is 2 inches shorter. 

Post # 79
663 posts
Busy bee

Lol this is such a funny question for me. I’m 5’3″ Yes I was engaged to a short guy 5’6″and I married a 6’0″ tall guy instead but I can assure you that height had absolutely nothing to do with it. I’m an extremely jealous person so in this scenario I’d probably go for the average looking taller guy because the super hot guy would probably be hit on all the time. 

Post # 80
3223 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

shawtydancer:  yeah… The fact you are single has nothing to do with your height, buddy.

Post # 81
257 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Polyphemus:  I guess I am just an easy going person. None of this offends me. If I cried and got upset everytime one of my male coworkers made fun of me because I am a female I would need to find a new job.

Oh wait, did I offend any men out there by calling them a male? 

People get WAY too butthurt. Damn this politically correct society.

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 11 months ago by  ohmylanta13.
Post # 82
164 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

I never thought that I would end up with a ‘shorter’ guy but my fiance is just a hair shorter than myself but he is perfect in every way and it doesn’t bother me at all anymore. 


Edit: I’m almost 5″7 so I’m on the slightly taller side. 

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Post # 83
1002 posts
Bumble bee

ohmylanta13:  I work in a male dominate industry, and I find that allowing sexism to run rampant makes my job harder, not easier.  We all choose the hills upon which we wish to die.  This is one of mine.

Post # 84
184 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Honestly, yes height does matter to me. I have this weird need to feel “safe” with my SO. That said, I am perfectly capable of taking care of and/or defending myself (physically & verbally) but I have a deep seated need to feel protected by him. For some reason large men (tall and well built) fulfill that need. However, I would never date a talI man with a shit personality. I waited a long time to find my tall, well built, gorgeous man that treats me like gold, makes me laugh and is 100% compatible with me. 

Post # 85
1262 posts
Bumble bee

There’s a pernicious mentality out there that says that looking a certain way, or being kind to others, entitles you to dates. Reject this at all costs.

Looks, height, clothes, and basic decency don’t mean that members of the opposite sex “owe” us attention. Dating is an exercise in compatibility between humans. Taking care of your looks is great, but focus on who you and the women you meet are as individuals. The focus isn’t to “win” dating, it’s to eventually find a relationship that enriches both of your lives, and in the meantime to become comfortable and gracious on your own.

You’ll meet a lot of people who aren’t the right match for you, as we all do, so don’t attribute that to cosmic injustice or something as superficial as height. Focus on growing into a good person, and the rest will come in time, even if you face some of the same struggles that most of us do along the way.

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 11 months ago by  mangosandcats.
Post # 86
556 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: City, State


shawtydancer:  Lol, trying to decide based on height and looks. Awesome. Also, I wouldn’t count if I was a gay man? Lol, okay I’m not one to get instantly offended over something not all that important in the grand scheme of things, so I won’t give you much of a hard time. I am 21, and I am married to someone who is 6′ 3″. I have only been attracted to taller guys, unless you count my mini-crush on Josh Hutcherson, who is 5′ 6″ (I think!). But other than that, I couldn’t really date someone that short. That being said, though, 5′ 8″-5′ 9″ isn’t really all that short! That’s the average height for men in the US. So I guess if given a choice, most would say the average height guy who is super attractive. But, I would choose the average-looking guy who is tall. 🙂 Hope this helps, whatever the reason for this post is! ETA: okay I see now what this post is about. I think the majority of women of average height would pick you. Can we see a picture of you so we can decide if you are as attractive as you claim? And who’s your competition? 😛

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 11 months ago by  UisceAlainn.
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Post # 89
510 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I love tall guys, there’s something so masculine about a tall guy.

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