Fertility issues straining our marriage

posted 2 years ago in TTC
Post # 91
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1652 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

DoubleD :  Yep, this has made my “troll alarms” go off too…and that’s rare for me.

Post # 93
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3294 posts
Sugar bee

soul83 :  WTF. This is insane. You are her doormat. Please leave this awful person. She is using you as a means to get what she wants- citizenship and a child. You clearly have no say in anything. This is all very one sided 😑 Sorry but your wife sounds like an absolute bitch. .. Why are you still with her!? I think you need to look into why you let someone treat you this way, it is so unhealthy…

Post # 94
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2420 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

soul83 :  Lol. You need to grow a spine.

Seems like a lot more than “fertility issues” straining your marriage.

Post # 96
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2477 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

soul83 :   this is a joke. You need to get off weddingbee and go see a therapist like yesterday. You sound like you’re 15. Its just pathetic. Your continuation of updates is pointless.  Leave the marriage or stay. We’ve all already given you the same advice and tou keep ip with these posts for what reason? Attention? I read your past posts and nothing about either of you is healthy.  Please don’t punish a child by bringing it into your dysfunctional life. You are so naive or have some type of problem and its not infertility. 

Post # 97
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6818 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

soul83 :  What. The. Fuck.

Seriously dude just file for divorce already!

Post # 98
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532 posts
Busy bee

soul83 :  Is she a mail-order bride?

I ask that because honestly I see no other way how you two ended up married or why you even continue to put up with this.

Please don’t snap. You’re much better than that. But she or some boyfriend may just end up murdering you. So you need to leave before you end up killed or she kidnaps any possible baby and leaves the country.

sablescorpion22 :  I would have also thought this was a troll post or joke of some sort, but his posts of this kind go back to 5 years.

Post # 99
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1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

1) I still call troll. 
2) If you can’t see the obvious answer here, nothing anybody here says is going to make a difference. 

Post # 100
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340 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

soul83 :  A big question for you…  with all that’s been said and done do you:

1) think your wife attitude will improve over time?  Do you think she’ll respect you more?  Or will come together to be a partner?

2). If her attitude doesn’t change do you think you can bare with how she treats you and potentially your child for the rest of your life?  Or that she’ll take your kids on trips without you because it’s convenient for her?

Based on what you told us… she has no respect for you.  Probably never will.  She has no reason to change her ways because she knows no matter how crappy she treats you you will always stay with her.  You are guaranteed life partner that she can manipulate and beat up.  

We can all tell you your wife has no respect, you should leave, etc.  But ultimately it is your choice.  However keep in mind… just because you want to make the relationship  work doesn’t necessarily means she feels the same.  It takes two to make a relationship work.  But it only takes one to destroy it.

And while I understand it’s difficult to give up the relationship right now because of all the financial wealth you two accumulated together… is it really worth trading off your dignity and respect for some extra money in your bank account?  Are you really only worth $xxxx?

Also I’m having a hard time understanding how with 3 investment properties you can’t even buy one if you were to separate… unless you either got a prenup… or you have mortgage on all of them and is in serious debt.  Then that’s just a false sense of financial security.

Post # 101
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866 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

soul83 :  why won’t you divorce her now?? Truly. Why??

Post # 102
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532 posts
Busy bee

soul83 :  So I’m honestly curious, is she a mail-order bride?

Post # 103
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471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Who wants to bet that shes going to take that baby and run so far back to China with it?

Post # 104
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2706 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

JFC.  Why are you still there? She’s using you for citizenship, a baby and nothing else.  Run, run, run.  She’s selfish and it’s never going to change.

Post # 105
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532 posts
Busy bee

suspend :  Who wants to bet that the “stolen” Audi is now in the boyfriend/coworker’s house? The intruder just conveniently found the wife’s spare keys as she walked in on him…

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