(Closed) Fertility Prenup

posted 3 weeks ago in Married Life
Post # 16
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Blushing bee

This is surely a joke.

Post # 17
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Busy bee

If you are worried about fertility and this is important to you, can you both get checked at the doctor ? That would increase your chances…. putting it in a prenup will not work though. From what I understand, there is an 85% chance that you will have no issues, so luck is on your side!

Post # 18
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Busy bee

Related story: back when my mom and dad were dating, he told her “Let’s live together and when/if you get pregnant we’ll get married”. She (for obvious reasons) said this wouldn’t work for her.

Post # 19
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Manhattan, NY

howtuu :  I don’t know where you were going with this in your original post, but as the fertile one in a couple experiencing severe infertility and pursuing IVF, I find this idea disgusting. It’s one thing if you can’t agree on how to move forward after getting a diagnosis, and you really work at it (time, counseling, compromise) but remain at an impasse, but our marriage is stronger than ever after choosing to make it work rather than run away from our problem. But that’s what people in love who are committed to each other do when something beyond your control (like a medical diagnosis) comes up. 

Post # 20
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

echomomm :  or what if they only “give you girls”??? Definitely get that in the prenup

Post # 21
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Busy Beekeeper

How is it that his post hasn’t been closed?

Post # 22
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2017

howtuu :  definitely it can. All the sperm and eggs will have to be counted though beforehand. 

Post # 23
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

itsme1987 :  Ooh, so sorry, you are absolutely right! I imagine there must be consequences if a woman can only “give you” girls. Definitely have that written in; King Henry is an inspriation!

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