(Closed) FFIL HELP!!!!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
236 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@Riot: This is a boundaries issue: If they can’t let you know by X date if they are helping, then they do not get to vote. Meaning, you can slash their guest lis. Really, they don’t have to help, though. It’s optional. Good luck!

Post # 4
Member
2442 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Politely tell them that because of previous discussions you were counting on their funding to assist with paying for guests from their guest list.  Now that their fundng is not available you will be altering your plans to include only the guests that your budget allows.  Give them a number and tell them to slash their list till they reach that number.  If they want more people to attend they will have to fork over the bucks UP FRONT.  

ETA:  Give them deadlines.  A deadline for slashing their list and a deadline for additional funds (if they say they want that).  It seems like if you give them an inch they will take a mile.  Save yourself the headache.  

Post # 6
Member
3572 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

have you already sent out the invititations?   are you still getting married in october?

The topic ‘FFIL HELP!!!!’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors