(Closed) FH fell for my best friend – should she come to the wedding?

posted 11 years ago in Relationships
Post # 47
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296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

It is your day!  The one and only day you get to be princess.  Do not let anyone rain on your parade.  If this friend makes you uncomfortable even for a second, don’t invite her.  I doubt you will ever regret not inviting her to the wedding, but you may regret inviting her.  Put yourself first, it’s YOUR big day!

Post # 48
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271 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

No way, I would not invite her.  She shouldn’t take it personally- there are billions of other people on earth you aren’t inviting, correct?

Post # 49
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404 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I wouldn’t invite her.  You and your fiance will both be uncomfortable, and your friend might even be embarassed to see you again on these terms.  I’m sure she’ll understand (why wouldn’t she??)

Post # 50
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3979 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I wouldn’t invite her. You aren’t close anymore & well, I wouldn’t want another woman there who my Fiance had feelings for. He wouldn’t want a former flame or object of your affection at your wedding either, right?

Keep her off the guest list. I’m sure she’ll understand 🙂

Post # 51
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92 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Think of yourself and your needs and don’t invite her if you feel uncomfortable. You don’t want to look to the left while you’re walking down the aisle and get bad thoughts because you saw her face. It could ruin your whole day.

Post # 52
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100 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I wouldn’t invite her.  You haven’t spoken with her much in the past two years.  What are the chances that you will reconnect with her?  Probably slim to none, so there’s no point in adding a person or two to the guest list.

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