(Closed) FH got laid off and I'm stressing big time!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m really sorry that happened!  I can’t imagine how stressful it would be to lose a job right before a wedding.  I hope he is able to find a job soon! 

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

OMG!  That is dreadful.  I’m sorry this happening.  Hopefully, your Fiance will hustle and get another job asap.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Not selfish at all! I didn’t get a honeymoon right away bc I was still in college and had to start back to school a couple days after my wedding. We did stay in a nice hotel downtown for two nights and it was really nice like a “staycation” we went to Cabo for our one year anniversary/honeymoon, then Vegas, then Puerto Vallarta.. My point being, I know it isn’t ideal but you will have lots of time to go on vacations if it doesn’t work out right away.. After all you will be married forever and that’s a long time 😉 sorry about the job loss.. I hope he finds one soon that is stressful for anyone 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

I was actually the one laid off last year for 2 months. My Fiance was the most amazing, supportive partner I could have asked for and boy would I have been pissed if he acted any differently. He was off work for 1 month last year and I was equally supportive to him.

We are lucky in that we can survive on one income, but I can certainly understand your stress and disappointment. Just keep in mind it will only make things worse if you’re fighting with him on top of financial woes, and men get a lot of their pride from their work. He’s feeling it too, of that I’m sure.

He won’t be laid off forever and you guys will get through this time and you will have a honeymoon. Now we are both working (making a sh*tload more money than before) and we are all the stronger as a couple for getting through the tough times without any fighting and added stress.  

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m sorry 🙁 Darling Husband and I had to wait around 4 months to take our honeymoon. Definitely not ideal, but at least we got to go eventually. Maybe you can go ahead and cut your cable? Darling Husband and I are cutting ours this month and it will save us $75/month. At least it is something… I hope things get better for you soon!

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