(Closed) FH not interested in wedding talk!

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
1535 posts
Bumble bee

My Fiance was like this at first, it took about 2-3 weeks after getting engaged for him to start looking with me. I think sometimes they put so much effort and time prepping for the proposal and teh idea of marriage that they want a bit of a break from wedding talk after haha. Have a browse yourself for the next week or two and get a guest list idea, budget idea and venue ideas etc and after 2 weeks show him everything and he should be much more willing to go through it. Once you start, he will realise how much hard work it is and that should kick him into action. For now he probably wants a little bit of time to enjoy being engaged. 

Post # 3
65 posts
Worker bee

I think you need to think about this from his perspective a bit more. You JUST got engaged and there was probably a lot of anticipation and planning which went into the proposal and engagement on his behalf. Let him take a break for at least a few weeks before you fully get into planning with him. I understand that you’re excited to get started and you’ve got other reasons to want to hurry things along, but two weeks won’t throw your whole timeline out.

Post # 4
1221 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Since it’s only been a week, enjoy being engaged before you jump right into wedding planning. It probably took him a while to get to the engagement, now it’s like you’re on to the next thing already. Yes you do have to plan in advance but you should also take time to enjoy this right now.

Post # 6
5189 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

yogahhh:  Geez, it’s only been a week. Give both of you some time to let the engagement sink in. If you nag him about a timeline this early in the game he’s gonna get extremely pissed off at you and you may not have a wedding at all. Seriously, guys HATE to be bugged about wedding planning. Ask any Bee if their man is totally stoked about it. Most will answer “no”. If you’re gonna use having a baby next year as an excuse then you might as well get married at the courthouse. Very easy to plan quickly.

Post # 7
595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

livhuss:  spot on.

I totally get that rush you get when that rings slips on your finger! But, guys are different. He just cleared one hurdle, give him a hot second. If it makes you feel any better, it took us a year before we even set a date. To this day, Fiance is convinced we have an eternity before the wedding to get things done (10 months-ya right!) I think its pretty normal. 

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