(Closed) FH work is not helping!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Well you’ve got quite a long time to figure out his scheduling, so I wouldn’t worry too much about it.  

Are there things you absolutely need his help with a few days before the wedding that would warrant time off or is it just a it would be nice to have him around to help?  My Fiance has 6 weeks vacation next year and will not be taking any time off leading up to the wedding (except the day before because we NEED to get our marriage license and the wedding is out of state).  It would be nice to have him around the few days before but I don’t need him there excepte for the license, so it’s no big deal for me.  It’ll be a busy time at work so he wants to only take off the days he truly needs to.

Ultimately, it sounds like your Fiance has a really good work ethic, which is a positive trait in the long run and much better than the alternative…
 

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

SOunds like it could be just too hard to pin something down that far out.  Either just be flexible with the honeymoon (as in take it in November when he is free, or wait until a holiday break).  There’s no rule the honeymoon has to be right after the wedding!

Instead of proposing ideas, either just wait until you both have more infor or ask him to come up with an idea.

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