(Closed) FH's with dangerous jobs

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

that’s terrible πŸ™ I hope he always stays safe. my Fiance is in the army, and is deploying in early July. I’m just freaking out and I know I’ll be so worried. he’ll be gone for a year πŸ™ some men are just so brave, our men included!

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Post # 6
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166 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@langloiswedding2013:  I could only imagine how you feel then! Coming home late, and leaving so early. All alone with your son πŸ™ It’s good he’s so involved on tv and radio and schools to educate. But like you said, looks like they need more people!

Fiance and I have known each other 5 years, and only started dating 8 months ago. He just made his 2 year mark in the army in April, so 2 more years to go! I’m very excited to get married, and we only got engaged on 3/31/13. Very short engagement. This is our both first deployment. So it’s gunna be tough. I’d definitely tell him thank you for you, but I already know his response. “It’s my job it’s what I do, I don’t need to be thanked.” That’s how he is, but I’ll thank you for trying to thank him! πŸ™‚

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

i can’t imagine how bad it must be to have a husband with a dangerous job. my Darling Husband used to get regularly sent to juarez (the worst city in mexico) and have to travel around the city at night, on highways etc. I hated it, i used to worry if he didnt contact me regularly. thank god hes stopped going there now 

 

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Fiance is in the Navy, and was most recently deployed in the Middle East for 6 months. He has been in for 9 years and while he was single, he had no problem with being deployed, so he always offered to go. It was old hat for him, but petrifying for me. In the beginning, I probably spent an hour a day crying. As time went on, I would still randomly sit on the kitchen floor and cry. It never got easier.

I had a google alert set for his ship, so whenever anything happened, I was emailed. I don’t know if knowing about the scary stuff made it easier or more difficult. We were never able to Skype due to bad internet, but he was able to call when he was in port and email on a regular basis. It was scary when I didn’t hear from him for longer periods of time.

Post # 12
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338 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

My FH is in the military, so I hear ya! I’m a worrier at heart anyway, so when he’s in a dangerous situation I am 10x worse. Also, my brother is a firefighter so I know that stress too! 

Post # 14
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@langloiswedding2013:  My husband is currently an iron worker, which is dangerous in itself, (he was electrocued last year which nearly killed him) but two years ago, he was an underwater welder. I don’t think he could have a safe job, he’s just not the type. i do notice though that he’s very particular with things, so it makes me feel better that he’s safer then most.

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My FH is a charge nurse (one of three head-nurse managers) inside the medical unit at a maxium security prision. He’s always coming home with stories about the bad things these guys do, and bad stuff he sees and treats in there. He’s been attacked and saved by guards a few times as well. :/

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