(Closed) FI and his mom FIGHTING over the Mother/Son Dance!!!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

maybe if you gave her a larger list of songs that were appropriate she’d be more likey to choose? give her a little more freedom so it’s more like her choice and not just picking between a or b. 

also, i bet if you make a poll you’ll get more responses/opinions

Post # 5
939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think that’s a good idea, if she’s determined to be difficult, i would just leave it up to whatever your Fiance wants.  Good Luck : )

Post # 6
2116 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Maybe give her some ideas that go with her generation a little more? It sounds like you guys are really stuck on new, almost tween songs which makes her completely out of her element. We’re combining and using “In My Life” by the Beatles which our parents like and can relate to. If she can’t relate to the music, then its going to be more difficult for her.

Post # 8
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

If the lyrics are that important to you I think it’s odd you’d suggest Never Grow Up….lines such as ‘Wish I’d never grown up’ and ‘I just realized everything I have is someday gonna be gone’ hardly seem appropriate. I would just drop the subject for now, hopefully she’ll get over it.

Post # 9
19 posts
  • Wedding: October 2011

Sounds like she’s not going to like any song you pick so tell her this is the song if you don’t like it then there won’t be a mother son dance

Post # 10
1573 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

people fight over the smallest things, aww

they just pick something they both like 

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