Post # 1
So Fiance and I were being silly today wrestling and stuff and I accidentally scratched him with my ring. It was a pretty deep scratch, he got upset and went to the bathroom. I was laughing so hard because he was acting like such a baby lol. Anyway he comes back and says “give me your ring!” I was like what? still laughing and he goes “give me your ring you are not wearing it anymore”. He meant for the night because he didn’t want to get scratched again, but I just started crying uncontrollably. I mean like a sobfest I could barely breath. Fiance freaks out and starts apologizing like crazy saying he wasn’t really asking for it back and he would never ask for it back. Even though I knew he didn’t mean it the way I took it I just couldn’t shake the sadness. I eventually got over it and we got back to our wrestling LOL but it was the worst feeling ever to hear him say he wanted me to take off my ring! I know I am a nerd but this wedding has me all emotional.
Post # 3
Sorry it got you so upset! I take off my rings at night because I will scratch him and myself.
Post # 4
Awwwww girl!! Ha I’d be the same way, I have a bad habit of taking things to heart and something like that would probably make me cry, too. So you’re alone in the emotions!
Post # 5
Awww, I would have probably done the same thing.. Obviously he was joking but he might not understand how girls can take it sometimes…Especially when we are emotional!
Post # 6
Welp! thats karma for thinking he was acting like a baby hehe just kidding its funny how emotional one can get about silly things I use to do it all the time : /
Post # 7
*whew* I was ready to read a scary sad post… so glad it’s not something more major!
I totally get you on the emotions though – I feel like I’m one big PMS fest with as much as I cry lately. I blame it all on wedding planning stress, haha.
Post # 8
My guy has learned to preface a lot of comments with "Just a joke hon…" because joking about being engaged/getting married/the wedding is a prime way to give me a serious case of weepy & pouty.
Post # 9
My fiance imposed a no ring in bed rule because he kept waking up with random scratches from my ring. I was a bit sad at first, but them I realised it was probably better anyway in order to protect the prongs.
I was so ready to read a sad post when I clicked on this post lol. I’m glad it wasn’t serious!
Post # 10
Im glad this post wasnt a serious one! phew… I was like NOOOOOOOOOO…
But yup I could see myself in the same situation. FH always has to say.. Im joking very quickly.. because I am a lot more emotional than i used to be due to stress.
Post # 11
I’m glad this wasn’t a break up. 🙂 I was afraid for you when I read the title. I’d probably be the same way.
The other day Fiance and I were laying on the couch together and I took off my ring because I could feel water trapped under the setting and he totally froze up and got really quiet. When I asked him what was up (after putting the ring back on, like 10 seconds after taking it off) he said he just had this huge panic thinking I was about to hand it back to him. So.. I guess it goes both ways 😛
Post # 12
Oh gosh, I know. The title of this post scared me too.
And I agree with Michelle…I’ve frightened Fiance by taking off my ring before when my hands were super cold, making it too big for my fingers.
Post # 13
I can totally see myself reacting the same way! I seriously cried yesterday over the dumbest thing and it turned into a ‘no one cares about me’ moment. My poor Fiance probably wanted to jump out of our 4th floor window. Weddings have the ability to make us crazy! I’m glad he didn’t really want it back though, your post title had me scared!
Post # 14
i would have cried too!!! ugh, men
Post # 15
Ugh, my Fiance pretended to throw my ring in the woods once. He quickly learned I do not find that kind of stuff funny.
Post # 16
Ya it’s funny how protective we have all become over our rings haha… I would have cried too… those are words I never want to hear from his mouth, and I’m still in shock that he loves me as much as he does (stupid I know… just insecurities) and those words terrify me!!!