(Closed) FI asked for ring back :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Sorry it got you so upset!  I take off my rings at night because I will scratch him and myself.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Awwwww girl!! Ha I’d be the same way, I have a bad habit of taking things to heart and something like that would probably make me cry, too. So you’re alone in the emotions!

*hugs*

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Awww, I would have probably done the same thing.. Obviously he was joking but he might not understand how girls can take it sometimes…Especially when we are emotional!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Welp! thats karma for thinking he was acting like a baby hehe just kidding its funny how emotional one can get about silly things I use to do it all the time : /

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper

*whew* I was ready to read a scary sad post… so glad it’s not something more major!

I totally get you on the emotions though – I feel like I’m one big PMS fest with as much as I cry lately. I blame it all on wedding planning stress, haha.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My guy has learned to preface a lot of comments with "Just a joke hon…" because joking about being engaged/getting married/the wedding is a prime way to give me a serious case of weepy & pouty.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

My fiance imposed a no ring in bed rule because he kept waking up with random scratches from my ring. I was a bit sad at first, but them I realised it was probably better anyway in order to protect the prongs.

 

I was so ready to read a sad post when I clicked on this post lol. I’m glad it wasn’t serious!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Im glad this post wasnt a serious one! phew… I was like NOOOOOOOOOO…

But yup I could see myself in the same situation. FH always has to say.. Im joking very quickly.. because I am a lot more emotional than i used to be due to stress.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m glad this wasn’t a break up. 🙂 I was afraid for you when I read the title.  I’d probably be the same way.

The other day Fiance and I were laying on the couch together and I took off my ring because I could feel water trapped under the setting and he totally froze up and got really quiet.  When I asked him what was up (after putting the ring back on, like 10 seconds after taking it off) he said he just had this huge panic thinking I was about to hand it back to him.  So.. I guess it goes both ways 😛

Post # 12
Hostess
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Oh gosh, I know. The title of this post scared me too.

And I agree with Michelle…I’ve frightened Fiance by taking off my ring before when my hands were super cold, making it too big for my fingers.

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I can totally see myself reacting the same way!  I seriously cried yesterday over the dumbest thing and it turned into a ‘no one cares about me’ moment.  My poor Fiance probably wanted to jump out of our 4th floor window.  Weddings have the ability to make us crazy!  I’m glad he didn’t really want it back though, your post title had me scared!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

i would have cried too!!! ugh, men

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Ugh, my Fiance pretended to throw my ring in the woods once. He quickly learned I do not find that kind of stuff funny.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Ya it’s funny how protective we have all become over our rings haha… I would have cried too… those are words I never want to hear from his mouth, and I’m still in shock that he loves me as much as he does (stupid I know… just insecurities) and those words terrify me!!!

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