(Closed) FI at Bridal Shower? Need advise!

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Hummmmm, while I don’t think it is a bad idea nor is it rude to make this suggestion, I think when it comes to parties that we are not hosting, we really should leave all the ideas up to the host. More then likely his aunts have already pictured what they want the shower to be like, an while your suggestion is innocent, it may be a little hurtful b/c they will feel they can’t plan the way they wanted to initally.

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Would he be the only guy there?

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@AnnieAAA: I completely agree. I would leave the planning up to his aunts unless they ask for your opinion.

For both of my showers, Fiance came for the last hour or so to help open gifts and load them in the car. Maybe you could ask if something like that would be ok but to suggest the whole theme of the party would be overstepping your boundaries, in my opinion.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I like the garage theme idea!  Maybe your bridesmaids could throw a garage theme party as well and make it coed.  The line is very fuzzy nowadays.  For my sister all of her showers (baby, bridal) were coed.  A garage theme would go over very well with the guys. 🙂

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