(Closed) FI being kind of a wedding snob

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Ha, not going to lie, this made ma laugh so much. Mostly because I wish Mr. KM would take even a passing interest in what our wedding will look like! Is he willing to pay for the upgrades? If so, great! If not, well, tough luck! I’m sure your wedding will be beautiful and more awesome than the tool’s wedding since, honestly, short engagements are hard! I’m in the midst of one right now and I’m going to have to lose alot of cute little details if i want everything to get done.

Post # 4
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114 posts
Blushing bee

haha- i think it’s very much an NYC thing! i live in manhattan i think a lot of ppl here feel the need to one-up each other, something i TOTALLY try to stay away from, especially between friends! but yeah i would be annoyed if my Fiance became suddenly interested in our wedding for that purpose.

Post # 6
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114 posts
Blushing bee

oh yeah i totally agree with you- i think being competetive about that stuff is so silly! but at least you have sight of what’s important to you on that day, the stuff that really matters!

Post # 7
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1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Why’s this Groomsmen trying to bogart your wedding? That’s really not cool. I think maybe it’s a good time to keep him and his Fiance at arms length for a while. Maybe you guys don’t hang out with him so much in the next couple months. I get it that they’re trying to plan a wedding fast –  but they should be asking you for help with ideas – not stealing yours.

It sounds like he’s not really a very good friend.

Post # 9
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1482 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m sorry, I’m with KMSull- your posts about this Groomsmen and your Fiance have made me laugh so much.  They’re acting like gossipy little girls, trying to steal ideas and one-up one another on their weddings!  I just picture them sitting there over beers, bragging about venues and centerpieces! 

I also question this Groomsmen motivation to want to talk wedding so much.  Is he worried about his own wedding or something?  I mean, planning a wedding isn’t EASY but it’s not that hard either. 

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