Post # 1
we are receiving rsvp’s for people and we only invited two of them and the rsvp says 5. I feel like if it’s his family he should be the one to tell them that the invitation was only for 2. he’s afraid of telling her because apparently she is the biggest dramatic person in his family. but i am going to be his wife so I feel like I am the one he should be trying to keep happy and sane (since i have so much other drama going on with the wedding, that he can at least do this) and we haven’t got all of our rsvp’s. i want him to do it…he really has a problem saying no. or should i just find her on facebook and break the news.
Post # 3
I’d tell him “I know you hate saying no but I need you to step up and help me here, take some of the load off of me” He’s going to need to have your back in probably harder ways throughout your lives together, might as well get some practice with the wedding hehe
Post # 4
- Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry
He needs to tell them- you shouldn’t be put in that position. You are 100% correct- “if it’s his family he should be the one to tell them that the invitation was only for 2.” Any difficult family issue needs to be dealt with by that person-I’ve read some of your other posts, and I know you have enough drama already on your side of the family, so it’s his turn. :)-
Post # 5
Ditto PPs. He deals with his family issues, you deal with yours (if there are any).