(Closed) FI delivering flowers to friends girlfriend? To me its disrespectful

posted 6 years ago in Music
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I do think you are overreacting…he isn’t paying for the flowers and they’re not from him, he is just helping his friend out. I bet if your Fiance wasn’t able to bring you flowers for some reason but made sure to have someone bring them to you, you’d think it was sweet. And you said you know the girl, so what is the problem? I think his friend is cheap but sounds like your Fiance is just trying to be a good friend. I really don’t see how it affects you at all, it’s not like he is going out and buying some other girl flowers!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think you’re overreacting. He’s helping a buddy out. Is it inappropriate for a delivery man to drop off flowers, its’s really no different. Obviously your Fiance doesn’t have feelings for this girl, so why react over nothing.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Seriously? Everyone in this scenario is taken, your Fiance is delivering flowers from this girls SO, not from himself. 

If my Fiance wouldn’t let me deliver a gift from a friend, I would seriously rethink our entire relationship.  I don’t think you trust him at all. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee

It doesn’t seem like that big of a deal to me, but everyone feels differently about certain situations.  I actually envisioned myself in the situation, and I wouldn’t be bothered at all, especially if I knew the girl.

BUT is there more to the story?  Is there any reason you might be jealous of her?  Does she flirt with your FI?  Sometimes it’s a person’s previous behaviour that makes us feel uncomfortable about certain situations…

Try not to stress too much.  🙂

Post # 8
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Helper bee

I wouldn’t sweat it. He’s just helping out his friend not expressing his own feelings for her. Is there more background here you aren’t sharing?

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

It’s weird I agree, but I don’t think it’s a big deal honestly. 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I really feel that this is NO BIG DEAL 🙂 I second what the others have already said, but that’s what WB is for, right? Venting and putting it all out there so that we can lend an ear and give our honest feedback.

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