(Closed) FI didn’t get the job…again.

posted 6 years ago in Career
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

What is his felid? There are a lot of Programs based on he feild that he might be able to get an internship which the could be  a perm. Position. 

There are also programs that help you learn how to conduct yourself in an interview, And to make your resume more awesome.

Just a thought.

 

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Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Don’t get discouraged!  Does his college offer a carrear counselling service?  I know many schools do and have their button on some opportunities!

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Hang in there! The job market is tough but he will find something. My husband was laid off in October – He went on at least 11 interviews and sent out over 100 resumes before he finally landed a job. Thinking of you!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

I am sorry. That has to be disappointing for you both.  Sending lots of good luck your way!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Hang in there!!  It took my Fiance about that long to find a full time job when he moved across the state to be closer to me.  He has since found a wonderful job doing exactly what he loves!  Don’t give up 🙂

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Stay positive. He didn’t get that job because there is something out there better for him. 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Hang in there!  It took my Fiance about a year to get a job in his field after he got his BS, and that was with experience.  It’s a tough market, but don’t give up hope!

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Macintosh:  I understand what you mean.  When my Fiance was out of work, after about four months of unemployment I was like, “Maybe you should apply for part time work in the meantime?” he was adamantly against it, and it was his life, but it frustrated me.  I thought it was ridiculous that he refused to look outside of his field even for part-time work, but now I understand why after working full time while taking on 20 credits a semester, he wouldn’t want to then settle for a job outside of his field.  I’m very “You gotta do what you gotta do” about pretty much everything and it took us awhile to work out our differences in that department.

He did promise that if he hit seven months of job searching, he would take a part time job, but told me I had to give him a chance.  Fortunately it paid off for him, but if it hadn’t, I think I would’ve been unhappy if it hit the seven month point and he still refused to look outside of his field.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

That is literally the third double post of the night…I’m not hitting refresh and I’m only hitting the post button once.  I’m just really bad at the internet.

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Can he write at all? I run a virtual office (but we are based in Chicago) so no face-to-face interaction required.

PM if you want to discuss.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Hi OP, just letting you know to hang in there as well! I was around 8 months out before I landed ONE decent job (a summer class that pays around $800 a month, hardly worth living off of).

Has he considered juggling jobs? Most people in my field (post-secondary education) juggle several part-time positions to make ends meet, especially with the budget cuts to education.

I would say it wasn’t until a year after graduation that I had a solid rotation of jobs. It’s not for everyone, but I’ve accepted it as part of the job description and love the job more than the schedule or money. MANY of my colleagues dropped out before they could take full advantage of our degrees, opting to go back into secondary or elementary school because the juggling can get very stressful.

I did not expect a FT position and won’t be for the next few years. Tenureship is a bit of a mountain to climb.

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Hang in there! I’m currently in the position your Fiance is in. I’ve been out of college since May 2011 and am still unemployed. It’s highly frustrating and can’t tell you how many times I’ve cried to my Fiance over it. 

Maybe he could try to get a part time job somewhere and keep looking until the right job comes along. Good luck to both of you!

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

I am so sorry. I went through this painful process with Darling Husband when he couldnt find a job for over a year before getting engaged.

Good luck to him, you’ll both be in my thoughts and prayers.

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