(Closed) FI ditching me day after wedding

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Bee Keeper

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emsie :  I would be super pissed off. 

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I would be really hurt. You only get one wedding whereas there’s a heap of football matches 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

That would make me pretty upset, that’s totally unreasonable.

Post # 5
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Busy bee

I agree, I’d be angry. The morning after your wedding is special, time to reminisce, bask in newlywed glow and all that jazz. It’s just not appropriate. And his family shouldn’t be asking him to go either…

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

I’d be very hurt. 

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

It makes sense to want to be together the next day after the wedding, but I can see how your Fiance might not realize yet what a special time that will be. Does his dad realize he’s getting married the day prior? I would express my concern, but he has to make his own decision and learn his own lesson. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

I can see why you’re bummed. I would probably just say “DH, I was really kind of hoping you and I could spend the day after the wedding together celebrating privately.”

If I said that to my DH he would pretty much automatically say okay and decline other plans. Of course if I’m being honest and I knew it was something super important to him I might just suck it up and go and enjoy some stadium snacks.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I’d be incredibly hurt. The morning after our wedding was so special. We didn’t live together before marriage so there was that added novelty, but lounging around the next morning looking at pictures at opening wedding gifts is one of my favorite wedding memories. You only get one first morning together as husband and wife.

Post # 12
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Busy bee

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emsie :  I would classify this as an eye roller but chalk it up to guys and their sports. I think you’ll like having him out of your hair so to speak.haha if you don’t mind me using that expression. I love my me time.  Your feet will be tired from dancing the night before. Go to the spa w your mom. 

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

I’d be ok with it, you’re technically not on your honeymoon yet

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I’d be pissed! Whether or not that’s fair, I’d be upset. Also, your Fiance is going to be EXHAUSTED and isn’t going to have the energy for a game.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Wait so he wouldn’t have to leave until the evening? That’s a bit different than your OP

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