(Closed) FI forgot dating anniversary today!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Don’t be too hard on him,  I totally forgot mine yesterday. ๐Ÿ™  HE actually reminded me. I felt soo bad.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@UpstateNYPrincessBride: yay june 2012 bride! This year’s anniversary is my last dating anniversary, ever! Then it’s onto the wedding anniversary!

I’d be upset and probably bring it up a few days from now and be like…oh hai, remember what Monday was?

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Ehhh not a big deal!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Is your anniversay today?  He may be planning something special for tonight!!

(By the way- I clicked on your post because of your username and then saw you live in Plattsburgh!  I went to SUNY Plattsburgh a few years ago!!)

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Fiance and I both have smartphones so I add those kinds of events to my phone calendar and “invite” Fiance so the event will show up on his calendar too. 

Hope he remembers soon and makes it up to you!  ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh man, I’d be ticked – I know some bees wouldn’t be, but I’m not one of them! This is why I always make sure to ask Fiance what he wants to do for our anniversary a week ro so before the actual date.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I wouldn’t be upset. My fiance seriously has the worst memory. I too have started putting everything in to the iphone calendar and I set the notification to go off the day before because if I do it any sooner than that it’s pointless and he forgets..Again. Try not to be to hard on him…Things like dating anniversaries are silly to most guys.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Ehhh, not that big of a deal.  Many other worse things could happen.

Post # 11
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Busy bee

OH MY GOD. I am not even joking, today is our anniversary and this post just reminded me. Hahahaha. I guess it’s not just guys who are absent minded sometimes? I mean, I remembered last week that it was Tuesday, but didn’t think of it when I woke up this morning.

Happy 7 years to us! ๐Ÿ˜›

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Candace From BC: and silly to some girls too, we never celebrated a dating anniversary.

today’s our 1 month marriage anniversary and i pointed it out to him and he thought i was crazy!

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

If it makes you feel any better, Fiance and I have been together 5+ years and have never, ever celebrated a dating anniversary… not something to lose sleep over. 

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I can never remember our dating anniversary.  It’s Darling Husband that always has to remind me. 

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Since I can’t edit my post anymore I’ll just add that celebrating anniversaries depends on the couple – I more mean these directed towards other bees than the OP, but if you forget your anniversary or don’t celebebrate and it’s not that important to you, that’s fine for you and your SO. But if it’s important to her then her Fiance most likely knows that and it’s okay for her to be a little mad that he forgot – for me it would be as bad as if he forgot my birthday. I just think the minimizing comments like she shouldn’t care at all are a bit unnecessary.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

We don’t really celebrate ours, but it’s more “hey, we’ve been together x many years! Yay!”  I guess to me anniversaries aren’t super important to us.  However, if they are to you as a couple then I think it’s totally expected that you would be upset if your Fiance forgot.

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