(Closed) FI hates my dress, and so does his groomsman. (Pics & poll) WWYD?

posted 4 years ago in Dress
  • poll: What would you do?
    Buy a new dress : (94 votes)
    24 %
    Try on more dresses and think about it : (111 votes)
    28 %
    Keep the dress : (189 votes)
    48 %
  • Post # 106
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    Helper bee

    I love your new dress. Its absolutely stunning and how tiny is your waist!!! Beautiful. 🙂

    Post # 107
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    8957 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    Well, the fact is you look  great in all of them, you truly do. I am so sorry that you were swayed by the frankly vulgar and immaterial opinions of your FBIl  – and yes what is wrong with Future Sister-In-Law that she passed them on in such a manner!  

    FI’s opinions  are more important  I agree, but he sounds  like my h.  – a bit  of a rough diamond who also sometimes  overstates his case over things he knows sweet FA about !

    Don’t show FSIL  another damn thing , you hear !

    Post # 108
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    2857 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2018

    Bee, please keep your dress! You obviously love it and it is beautiful on you! Your Fiance is probably right when he says that he will feel different when it is on you (the dresses are similar but still very different). My Fiance once told me he thought bob haircuts were “old lady like” literally an hour after I cut my hair into an a-line bob (he didn’t know what cut I had picked and was just continuing a conversation from the night before). He actually loved my new hair cut and told me to keep it during my next appointment. You Fiance loves you and will love your dress. 

    Post # 109
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    2857 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2018

    I just realized that you bought a new dress! It is also beautiful! 

    Post # 110
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    2328 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    You look great in all of them so that’s not really the problem. But I am so sad your dress experience was ruined by such pathetic and rude people. 

    FWIW, my Maid/Matron of Honor hated my dress but I loved it, felt stunning and got so many compliments. What you feel good in will make you shine.

    Post # 111
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    337 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2016

    That Sottero is one of my all time favorite dresses. It’s almost identical to my Allure 9202. You look incredible in both dresses and your fiancé is one lucky guy!

    Post # 112
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    469 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    mrsbrizz2017 :  love love love your new dress! It is much more flattering! Beautiful! 

    Post # 113
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2018 - Vineyard Lake

    I personally think you look beautiful in that dress!! If you love it then I think you should wear it. Once he see’s you in it he won’t feel the same. You look so much different than the woman on the tv did in her dress. Don’t let it get you down bee!

    Post # 114
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    Helper bee

    I recall when you were initially faced with this dilemma, and have been wondering what you ended up selecting. It had been my hope that you kept the first dress you fell in love with, but this one is equally beautiful. Gosh, you look like a fairy-tale princess! Truly! The cut really enhances your lovely figure, the lace flows beautifully, and I love the way it laces up in the back. Congrats!

    Post # 115
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    356 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    I liked the first dress. But oh my the second dress is stunning on you. And geez it makes your waist look sooooo tiny! Great job, congrats on the new dress 👏🏼

    Post # 116
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Dear mrsbrizz2017! I was just about to say, that no matter that you liked that 1st dress you bought, you should change it, because the impression about it is already ruined, and then i found out that you already bought the 2nd one!

    I think it is really right decision, because it is clearly that your fiance doesnt like that dress and too many ppl has already seen it and commented on it, you dont need them to keep on discussing that dress on your wedding.

    Your new dress looks much more better! It suits you more and it is really really beautiful! More delicate i can say! You actually did the right thing asking your bf about the idea of the 1st dress, so this lead you to the 2nd one!

    Post # 117
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    419 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2016 - Muhlhauser Barn

    I love your dress!! you look amazing and its about how YOU feel in it and you are rocking it! your tattoos look beautiful in it as well!

    Post # 118
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    463 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    mrsbrizz2017 :  you look stunning in your new dress! Listen the other gave you a huge smile but this one does too and the other I truly feel you would look back in with kids and say “meyhnnn all those ruffles” and no matter what you want your husband to be to gasp and think what a gorgeous wife when you walk down that aisle not what a gorgeous wife but what are those ruffles! You look stunning! 

    Post # 119
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2016

    I remember reading your story when you first posted it, and wondered what you would end up doing.  You look great in everything!  Your new dress is really pretty and you look beautiful in it too!

    Post # 120
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    I saw your first dress and was going to comment that you looked amazing in it and that your Fiance would absolutely love it, regardless of how he *thinks* he feels about that style of bottom….

    And then I saw your second dress. WOW! They’re both beautiful but I think the second one is my favorite of the two. It does a lot more for you! While it was disappointing that you felt the need to look for another dress, this one is stunning, and your future hubby is going to love it!

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