(Closed) FI indecisive nature is driving me crazy!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1172 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@CodijoC:  First of all being a Gemini or any other astrological sign has anything to do with his personality and behavior. It sounds more like he is passive aggressive and more likely bi-polar. Shifting mood swings is a huge sign of the disorder.  Also sometimes men get scared. Considering the first paragraph where you and he have had ups and downs it could be that he is getting cold feet. Also consider that alot of men arent always involved in the planning.


If he is indecisive now its not likely gonna change, You can either live with it or make a chooice and tell him that he needs figure out what he wants and do what needs to be done.

I would be more concerned about the mood swings.


Just my advice…good luck

Post # 4
1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

If your wedding is in September, would it be possible to agree to leave wedding stuff for a month or so and just concentrate on your lives and each other without that stuff just to give yourselves a break? I am sure wedding planning gets to all of us. As long as he is treating you right, maybe all you need to do is sit him down and speak to him about how he is feeling and both be honest. It sounds like you’re feeling some of this too. Try to look at the bigger picture: it’s a happy but stressful time, but after that you can go back to focusing on your lives together with the stress of an impending wedding. Either way I am sure you will both enjoy your wedding day when everything comes together and all the stress is forgotten about.


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