(Closed) FI is actually getting involved?!!!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

OMG that is great. LOVE!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

My Fiance turned into somewhat of a groomzille, he’s very opinionated about everything, yet has no clue about anything that actually goes into a wedding. It’s a bit frustrating, but ulimately everything will be picked by both of us.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Fi hasn’t had an opinion on anything, but when we started talking about music for the ceremony he perked up and chose one of the 3 songs. I chose one and the musicians chose one. It’s not one that I would have chosen, but he is so proud of his choice that I wouldn’t dream of saying anything.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Thats so awesome what a good feeling eh???? Fiance was kind of the opposite he was all on board to do the invitations and pick the resort and everything but now were at the part about picking flowers and a location on the resort and colours etc and he doesnt care haha I cant blame him though I dont really care either! haha

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Tiffmorris:  We are marrying the same person. My rule has been ‘you don’t get to have opinions unless you’re willing to do the work.’ he finally JUST started being involved, like super involved, two weeks before. I think he was just tired of me being a stressed out rage monkey.

@Tangled, that is hilarious that you chose the same one. Sounds like you two are on the same page. 🙂

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

That’s nice he’s gotten involved, even if it’s late in the game. My Fiance won’tcome up with ideas or anything on his own, but when I give him a few options for something he suddenly has very strong opinions. Prime example- the cake. I told him one night that I had a few pics of cake styles I liked and wanted his input. At first he was like, huh? We already picked flavors, I thought we were done? But once I showed him some different styles, it turns out he only likes square cakes where the details are in a color other than white. Go figure.

 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Tangled:  My Bridesmaid or Best Man takes wretched iPhone pics. I literally didn’t know it was possible. So I smiled, thanked her, and deleted. She took three and they were ALL blurry and all unflattering. Ansel Adams she is not.

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