- Melissa.erin
- 10 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
I only wish that I was coordinated enough to be a stripper. Sadface.
Wow! It’s crazy how this has really taken on a life of its own! I WISH I could be more comfortable with the idea of Fiance going to strip clubs but I just can’t bring myself to be. However, we have gone into a strip club (at my request) as a couple and that was kind of fun!
I stopped reading halfway through… too irritated. To get back on topic: Kingy, I’m glad your future hubby is having a good time in Vegas and that you’re cool with it. I feel the same way. We’re totally allowed to hold those opinions without it turning into a drama fest.
(Mumbles about this being the reason half my bridespeople are going to be male…)
I think it is cool that you are comfortable with your Fiance going to a stripclub. If those are your boundaries and he respects them, I think that is fine.
My issue with strip clubs, as someone posted above, is that if you wanted to see what they are like, don’t wait for your “last single night” to go check it out. In my opinion, you AREN’T single, and you really should consider how this makes your SO feel (but if the SO doesn’t mind, go for it). I mind because I find it disrespectful to me(someone brought up honor) and if the situation were reversed, I know he would be hurt/jealous about me going to a strip club and getting hit on while watching naked men. I just don’t like the fact that people associate being uncomfortable with their man going to a SC as being insecure in their relationship or distrusting of their man (I’m sure some people are, but mostly it is just something that many of us don’t think is appropriate).
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