Post # 1
I was honest and told him that he’s not a good kisser. I feel he’s slobbering over me at times. I don’t know how the issue can be improved. I used to date other guys and their kisses would cause me to melt because they were so gentle and soft.
Post # 3
So many questions… Did you actually use the words “not a good kisser” or did you phrase it in another way? Did you try to show him how you like to be kissed by kissing him that way? What was his reaction to your confession?
Post # 4
You have to teach him how you like to be kissed, that’s all. You can gently correct him by leading by example. He’ll learn and reciprocate well once he find out what you like the most.
Post # 5
I wasn’t a fan of DH’s kissing when we first met. But practise makes perfect…it didn’t take long to get it right 🙂 You just have to be patient and teach by example! I hope he took your comment ok!
Post # 6
I didn’t tell him that he’s a horrible kisser, but I implied that his kisses aren’t soft and gentle. He would try to kiss me gentle when I mentioned it to him but days or weeks later he’s back to his own way. I never told him that I feel he’s slobbering all over me.
Post # 7
I can understand where you’re coming from. My bf’s kissing style downright annoys me at times and I think I’m going to try to give out a few gentle hints. Shorter kisses are fine, great, but the “making-out” kisses, not so much. He comes on a little too strong, a single kiss lasts waaaay too long and I start to feel smothered, and like you, I sometimes feel like he’s slobbering all over me. Lol but he’s a wonderful guy, I can deal with sloppy kissing haha.
Post # 8
Ok, I can see what you mean. A boost to the ego is 100x better than a blow to the ego. If and when he does do something that you enjoy, really let him know it. My Fiance really likes it when I’m enjoying myself and if he gets a positive reaction out of me, then he will be sure to try whatever he was doing again. My Fiance has gone back to old habits on me too. It actually helped him remember if I was a little “over the top” in my reaction when he did something right. It takes some conditioning.
Post # 9
I have this issue as well…Fiance is not the best kisser. short and sweet ones he is very good at, but when it comes down to the making out and really kissing, he doesnt do it and frankly not that good.